{"id":96,"date":"2011-04-11T08:43:17","date_gmt":"2011-04-11T12:43:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.nycnyne.net\/blog\/?p=96"},"modified":"2015-05-18T20:53:31","modified_gmt":"2015-05-19T00:53:31","slug":"grooking-around-cemeteries","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/matthannan.net\/blog\/grooking-around-cemeteries\/","title":{"rendered":"Grooking around cemeteries"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This is the single stone that I wanted to find yesterday. It just so happens to be right up the street from the house. I was expecting just Elmer C. Lee, Jenny&#8217;s great uncle.<br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/matthannan.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/LeePlotWestSt.jpg?resize=600%2C399&#038;ssl=1\" title=\"Lee Plot\" class=\"alignnone\" width=\"600\" height=\"399\" \/><br \/>\nAs you can see, it lists not only old Elmer, but his wife (who I had no record of), his mother (which was a shocker to both Jenny and I) and gives us the location of the mysterious John E. Lee. Everything about this guy is a mystery. And he happens to be the furthest back I can get in this line.<\/p>\n<p>While off doing our errands, we happened by another cemetery. This one happened to have Jenny&#8217;s mother&#8217;s father in it.<br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dl.dropboxusercontent.com\/u\/2023076\/Genealogy\/Duphily\/DuphilyGraveII.JPG?resize=600%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" title=\"Duphily\" class=\"alignnone\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><br \/>\nThe wife is still alive, but has been diagnosed with terminal cancer. She has about six months to live. \ud83d\ude41<br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dl.dropboxusercontent.com\/u\/2023076\/Genealogy\/Duphily\/RobertDuphilyGrave.JPG?resize=600%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" title=\"TL4E\" class=\"alignnone\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A short while later, after we visited some hippie organic home and yard goods shoppe (where I got to play with a goat and managed to get a rooster to crow his head off), we happened by yet another cemetery. This one held Jenny&#8217;s father&#8217;s father and another uncle.<br \/>\nThe grandfather:<br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dl.dropboxusercontent.com\/u\/2023076\/Genealogy\/Lee\/GilbertLeeGrave.JPG?resize=600%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" title=\"Gilbert Lee\" class=\"alignnone\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><br \/>\nHis wife is still alive, but is now in a home. She suffered a stroke about a year ago.<\/p>\n<p>The granduncle and his wife (who I had no record of):<br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dl.dropboxusercontent.com\/u\/2023076\/Genealogy\/Lee\/RogerLeeGrave.JPG?resize=600%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" title=\"Roger Lee\" class=\"alignnone\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p>One thing that caught my eye in all of these graves. Every one of the males was in WWII.<\/p>\n<p>After we were home for a while and I had uploaded all of the photos, I started to think about John E. Lee out in Walpole. A quick search of Google Maps showed me that he was only 25 minutes away, so I grabbed the camera and the wife and headed to Walpole. The cemetery was not terribly large, but we some how missed his stone on our first pass. I spied it about mid-way through on the second pass.<br \/>\n<img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dl.dropboxusercontent.com\/u\/2023076\/Genealogy\/Lee\/JohnELeeGrave.JPG?resize=600%2C400&#038;ssl=1\" title=\"John E. Lee\" class=\"alignnone\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Like I said, everything about him is a mystery. I have no record of him prior to 1920, when he is married with two kids and a third on the way. He was working as a brakeman on the rail line in Claremont, NH. On the 1920 Census form, he first gives the birth location of his parents as &#8220;Unknown&#8221;, but then changed that to &#8220;US&#8221;. Somewhere along the lines, the eldest son dies at 15. No idea how. The 1930 Census (yes, the next available record on him), finds him working as a silversmith in Attleboro, MA. On this form, his father is listed as &#8220;US&#8221; and his mother is &#8220;Canada French&#8221;. The next record I have on him is his headstone. Even that is a mystery. Why is he so far removed from his family? Even the location in the cemetery is odd! He&#8217;s kind of <em>between<\/em> rows, by himself, but the stone looks like someone cared a bit about him! While I am glad we found an actual stone, I think I would have been more relieved to find him in a common grave or with a far more plain stone.<\/p>\n<p>On the ride home, Jenny reflected on the day and said that she was glad that she came with me on this adventure. It started to give her a sense of who these people were. You can&#8217;t ask for more than that!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is the single stone that I wanted to find yesterday. It just so happens to be right up the street from the house. I was expecting just Elmer C. Lee, Jenny&#8217;s great uncle. As you can see, it lists &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/matthannan.net\/blog\/grooking-around-cemeteries\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":658,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[244],"tags":[116,101,98,112],"class_list":["post-96","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-genealogy","tag-attleboro","tag-genealogy","tag-jenny","tag-ma"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/matthannan.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/LeePlotWestSt.jpg?fit=3008%2C2000&ssl=1","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2NxlE-1y","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":143,"url":"https:\/\/matthannan.net\/blog\/1940-census\/","url_meta":{"origin":96,"position":0},"title":"1940 Census","author":"matthannan","date":"4 April 2012","format":false,"excerpt":"Been playing around with the 1940 Census for, well, most of the day today. 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